As a Christian, and more specifically an Evangelical Christian, Christmas is a special time of year. I'm also traveled enough to know it isn't special all over the world. There are places where just the mention of Christmas causes people to become angry, and even some places where it is forbidden to utter the word. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm not naive. Sadly, it seems the more our western culture becomes obsessed with political correctness, the more offensive it becomes to be express your faith in Christ. The hope of Christmas as proclaimed by the angels at our Savior's birth is far from peaceful. Peace on earth is not what the angels proclaimed. The promise of peace was given with a caveat, a condition that goes to those who believe in Jesus as the Son of God.
The modern interpretation of peace seems to be a universal idea of cessation of hostility, absence of violence, or a more Utopian ideal of harmony between everyone. This is not the promise of the Messiah, nor is it the peace offered by the angelic hosts who sang over the manger in Bethlehem. The Peace of God is a state where the Father lays aside His anger at man's rebellion. The creator of the universe offers redemption to those who wish to be united with Him. Even then, He doesn't remove our will, nor does he make us automatons programmed to do His every whim without our input. A matter of fact He values our input so much, He continues to provide us opportunities to add flavor to His plans and purposes with our own creativity. It is because He is at peace with us that we are able to live a life of peace. While this is a wonderful place to be, not everyone is going to attain that peace at the same time, and there will be struggle between even the most devoted Christians. That doesn't mean Christianity has failed, nor that God has failed. It means that hope lives. In my short 63 years upon this planet, I've seen a major growth in the understanding, and unity of the Church. There are still denominations, but they are beginning to be less divided than at any time I can remember. To me it seems as if we are seeing the 'unity of faith' Paul spoke about in Ephesians 4:13. Are we experiencing the world's definition of peace? Not by a long shot. Are we experiencing God's peace. Oh yes!
This Christmas, I have only one gift to give, and that is the hope for peace with God. Peace with God is simply relaxing and knowing that He is God. In that place, you find complete Peace.
As a closing remark, let me quote you the verse in Luke 2:14 from the New Living Translation;
"Glory to God in the highest heaven, and peace on earth to those with whom God is pleased."
Now let me share with you the translation from the Complete Jewish Bible; "In the highest heaven, Glory to God! And on earth, peace among people of good will!"
The birth of Jesus brought Glory to God, and peace to those who's hearts are filled with good will. Why? Because now, even though we are still diverse and different, even though we are messed up, confined to this earthly vale, we can be pleasing to God. That brings unexplainable peace.
Thank you, Lord for being born as we are born. Thank you for taking on my sins. Thank you, God, for forgiving me.
Merry Christmas to all.
Wednesday, December 19, 2018
Saturday, December 1, 2018
YOU CAN BE HAPPY
On its surface, happiness seems to be elusive and difficult to maintain. Lately, in our highly charged political environment, happiness isn't just elusive, it is hiding out somewhere refusing to be found. As a handyman, I usually deal with people at a bad time in their lives. When something is broke down, needs repairing, or needs to be replaced, it is hard to be happy about it. So, it goes without saying that I am confronted with people who aren't happy, Well, at least for the moment.
Despite what people say, happiness does depend on our circumstances. I think the reason happiness is dictated by our circumstances is because we are often forced to deal with issues out of our control. Nothing affects your happiness more than feeling your life is out of your control. I'm not one of those people who believe you should paste on a smile and pretend to be happy when you aren't. As an evangelical christian, I often resent preachers who will stand in the pulpit and blast you for being down when life throws a monkey wrench at you. "have faith in God," "There is a reason for this," "just be grateful" and the thousands of other high sounding platitudes make a mockery of the biblical admonition to mourn with those who mourn, and to rejoice with those who rejoice. Grief, mourning, sorrow, and even anger are emotions that our Heavenly Father has had. His discontent with mankind even forced him to repent of His decision to make us in the first place. So, for someone to quote a bunch of goofy platitudes is insulting at best.
So, what do we do when we are confronted with tragedy, setbacks, and bad situations beyond our control? Do you just 'look on the bright side of life'? Is there something that makes the pain go away?
I know in my own life, it took a long time for me to realize what was already out of my control, and what I had a genuine reason to be bummed out about. We, here in the west, most specifically here in the USA, are blessed beyond measure. Even those who legally qualify as living in poverty are better off than 98% of the world's population. To know that you are in the top 2% in terms of wealth should go a long way to begin stepping out of the doldrums. You won't be instantly happy with that thought, but at least you will be able to put a reference point to your situation. Our worst situation would make 98% of the worlds population feel enriched. I wish everyone could be grateful for this awesome nation we live in. Gratitude is the soil in which happiness grows best. Yet, once we have something, we are rarely grateful, which tends to make us less happy.
Speaking mainly from my own personal experience, I know that there are base things that affect my happiness, but they all boil down to one thing, time. If we would allow ourselves to be honest we all know that our time is money. Every disappointing situation in life outside of grief, can be measured in time. Loss of a job, home problems, car problems, even people problems can be taken down to a measure of time. If it wasn't true, then why would we ask how long someone was married when they tell us they just got divorced. If a friend betrays you, the question will eventually be 'how long were you friends?'
At the end of our lives, when we are more aware of our impending departure, we rarely wish we had more work, or more things. We want more time.
Time still isn't the base measure for happiness. It's what you fill that time up with. Love, in all of its higher expressions (not lust) is what makes for happiness. Even then, if our love is selfish and measured on the love returned, we have missed our opportunity to be happy.
Oh, and going back to my earlier point about the highly charged political environment, it seems to me some people are happy being angry.
At least it seems that way to me.
Despite what people say, happiness does depend on our circumstances. I think the reason happiness is dictated by our circumstances is because we are often forced to deal with issues out of our control. Nothing affects your happiness more than feeling your life is out of your control. I'm not one of those people who believe you should paste on a smile and pretend to be happy when you aren't. As an evangelical christian, I often resent preachers who will stand in the pulpit and blast you for being down when life throws a monkey wrench at you. "have faith in God," "There is a reason for this," "just be grateful" and the thousands of other high sounding platitudes make a mockery of the biblical admonition to mourn with those who mourn, and to rejoice with those who rejoice. Grief, mourning, sorrow, and even anger are emotions that our Heavenly Father has had. His discontent with mankind even forced him to repent of His decision to make us in the first place. So, for someone to quote a bunch of goofy platitudes is insulting at best.
So, what do we do when we are confronted with tragedy, setbacks, and bad situations beyond our control? Do you just 'look on the bright side of life'? Is there something that makes the pain go away?
I know in my own life, it took a long time for me to realize what was already out of my control, and what I had a genuine reason to be bummed out about. We, here in the west, most specifically here in the USA, are blessed beyond measure. Even those who legally qualify as living in poverty are better off than 98% of the world's population. To know that you are in the top 2% in terms of wealth should go a long way to begin stepping out of the doldrums. You won't be instantly happy with that thought, but at least you will be able to put a reference point to your situation. Our worst situation would make 98% of the worlds population feel enriched. I wish everyone could be grateful for this awesome nation we live in. Gratitude is the soil in which happiness grows best. Yet, once we have something, we are rarely grateful, which tends to make us less happy.
Speaking mainly from my own personal experience, I know that there are base things that affect my happiness, but they all boil down to one thing, time. If we would allow ourselves to be honest we all know that our time is money. Every disappointing situation in life outside of grief, can be measured in time. Loss of a job, home problems, car problems, even people problems can be taken down to a measure of time. If it wasn't true, then why would we ask how long someone was married when they tell us they just got divorced. If a friend betrays you, the question will eventually be 'how long were you friends?'
At the end of our lives, when we are more aware of our impending departure, we rarely wish we had more work, or more things. We want more time.
Time still isn't the base measure for happiness. It's what you fill that time up with. Love, in all of its higher expressions (not lust) is what makes for happiness. Even then, if our love is selfish and measured on the love returned, we have missed our opportunity to be happy.
Oh, and going back to my earlier point about the highly charged political environment, it seems to me some people are happy being angry.
At least it seems that way to me.
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